A day of transience. Change in the season, cooler than usual, as yet undecided. Tentative, somehow. So I built a fire. We were renting a small apartment in a low-rise Vancouver neighbourhood. Buildings are older, still furnished with wood-burning fireplaces. Like camping, indoors. Supper was already made, and with a freshly poured pint in my glass, I crumpled paper, added a log, and set it alight. The process still induces a primal thrill, tapping deep in a vein I can hardly articulate, somewhere between hunter-gatherer and tribal contributor. Then again, it may simply be pretty glimmers of wavering orange with a devious hint of pyro.
We were set up with Netflix, the evening shaping up fine, then the lights softly surged, and with an almost audible “pop” we were cast into dark. A power outage. Blanketing the entire community. So much for Wi-Fi, movies, or charging devices. Like that, we were in the dark ages. But supper was already warm. The beer, still chilled. And the fire was throwing a blushing warm glow through the room. I dug out a book and what I thought was a very good evening morphed into one of perfection.
“Look at me,” I said aloud. “Reading. By the light of a fire. Like a caveman! (Well, a literate caveman, with a penchant for travel memoirs.)
It brought to mind another experience. A midsummer evening, when we walked to a restaurant facing a beach, setting sun low on the sea. Unbeknownst to us, the power had gone out then as well, across the whole area, while we made our way from our home to the oceanside restaurant. We entered the place and it had the ambience of good dining, candles lighting the compact space. It still didn’t occur to us that there was no power. The proprietor greeted us at the front door. It was early and there were no other patrons.
“I’m so sorry,” he said. “We have no power.”
“Oh, right,” we said, a bit baffled, only then realizing the situation. “So, no service tonight?”
He thought about it. “Well, not exactly. But if you’re okay with candlelight, we could do you a salad. And we have oysters on ice. Which are excellent, if you eat them right now.”
We said that sounded ideal, along with some bread and a bottle of wine, still cool from the fridge. The meal, the ambiance, and serendipitous improvisation made it one of the best I recall.
Walking back in the dark, the power returned, streetlamps returning to life in a flickering row, lighting our path as though the whole town was on a motion detector. When we came home it was, unsurprisingly, just as we’d left it. But with a lingering sensation the entire near-perfect and dreamy excursion had all been imagined.
That’s how I felt in front of the fire, a warming mood of recollection, the space of shared stories. Where things move at an agreeably metered tempo, the analog pace of the world as opposed to the ramped-up speed of high-tech. When the things that we do, what we experience, are wholly sensory, engaged and engaging.
One more experience came to mind. From childhood. Mom, dad and me, maybe a sibling as well, seated in the living room, when the power went out one wintery night. Again we lit a fire, then told stories in turn. For my share, I sang a song, a song about summertime, the whole thing still utterly vivid. Those feelings, fondness and warmth. Tapping into agelessness. Perhaps that’s exactly what we’re meant to be doing on long and dark evenings together. Adapting. Improvising. And sharing. Experiencing rich simplicities in all their wonder, savouring the world we inhabit.